You may be wondering who you should tell or what you should say to significant people in your life. Parents, friends, employers, neighbors, and partners can be sources of support and solace. Follow your own heart when deciding who to turn to. You may worry that you are relying on others too much. It is okay to ask for help in times of crisis. People who truly care about you will want to help; people who truly care about you may need to be told how to help you. It is okay to tell people what you need from them. It is okay to say: